Red flags when dating a new guy
Once you realize you’re truly alone when it comes to making the effort to maintain the relationship, it’s bound to become painful.
If the person you’re seeing seems eerily similar to past lovers, that’s a red flag.
You are not their ex, and if the partner doesn't move on from their ex, then they may rush things, or leave you before you aren't prepared.
They Always Badmouth Their Previous Relationships Speaking of exes, one red flag is if they're always talking about how horrible their exes are. Some people fall into bad relationships, and it's okay to have resentment still.
Rebound relationships rarely work out, and one of the reasons is because your partner is so fixated on their ex still.
“Early on this may seem like an exciting pairing, but as time goes on power struggles are likely to develop as each seeks to change the other.” Find someone who shares your values, wants the same things for the relationship, and agrees with you (at least on most counts) about how to pursue and live out these goals.
Work, friends, the gym, whatever—if these things derail your plans or come before you regularly, proceed with caution.
“Anytime you become completely dependent on one person for love, companionship, and socializing, there’s potential for suffering devastating heartache if and when you lose that one person,” says Darné.
“If your mate has forced you to distance yourself from loved ones for the sake of your relationship, you’re being set up for a major fall.” Everyone needs an emotional support network that includes friends and family outside of their primary relationship. But be wary of someone who seems a little perfect, especially if you have a gut feeling that he/she is just telling you what you want to hear, rather than an honest answer that could present complications you’d have to deal with as a couple.