Dos and don39ts of dating for women
Your date will appreciate the effort you made and if they haven’t made as much of an effort then they will aim to the next time you meet up.
No one is perfect and no one is looking for Mr or Mrs perfect. The more you look away when you are speaking the more dishonest you will seem.
The relationship between you two will start off in the best possible way if you are totally honest with your date. You should always be proud of expressing exactly who you are and what you stand for and if it doesn’t sit well with them then you know that they aren’t the right person for you.
There will be plenty of time for them get to know you, just wait your turn and reveal more about you when the time calls for it.
If you’re meeting for the first time it’s likely you’ll find out a lot about your date that you never knew.
Some of it may be of interest to you, some not, but act like you are interested.
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It will help you keep the right perspective as you go on your very first date. Kurt Smith is the Clinical Director of Guy Stuff Counseling & Coaching, a Northern California counseling practice that specializes in helping men and the women who love them.