Dating violence advice
Teenagers take cues from their surroundings and the media they follow.
If they see violent relationships in the home, on television, or in a movie they may normalize any violent or damaging behavior within their own intimate relationships.
Teens are very sensitive to the perceptions of others and may be embarrassed about their situation.
Finding a private space where your teen is most comfortable can help to set the scene for a meaningful and exploratory conversation.
Your teen is developing habits and expectations that will stay with them for life – don’t shy away from ensuring these behaviors are positive because the subject is potentially embarrassing.
Also, if you fear that your teen is engaging in teen dating violence, make sure they understand the potential criminal consequences.
If you suspect your teen is in an unhealthy or violent relationship, set aside a time to speak privately.
The better you understand your teen’s partner the better you’ll be able to evaluate the relationship.
Once you establish a baseline for how the relationship operates, negative changes may be more evident.
It is easy for relationships to fail because resorting to unhealthy behaviors is easier than investing time, energy, and consideration.
Teens will be hesitant to talk about their intimate relationships.