Dating a guy in the military
” a co-worker asked curiously when I first mentioned my boyfriend was in the military. “Not exactly, we haven’t been on a date for a while.” “But you’re seeing each other,” another co-worker chimed in. They didn’t want us to spend too much time together or become attached too quickly. After he joined, we spent the next six years dating long distance and only seeing each other a few times a year.“Well, I haven’t seen him yet this year, but I do look forward to seeing him! When the service member is on leave, there is nothing wrong with dropping everything to see them every day!There are many big changes that come with being in military relationships, but as a couple anyone can make it through the changes together with experience and love.While you never know when a deployment or other work-related issue may come up, we get better at dealing with big changes because of it.The fact, is you are with someone who wants to get better and has set goals. They also have the end in mind and are working towards it.
There is a sense of needing each other more, and a sense of understanding and resilience is necessary to make the relationship last.This is probably one of the worse things that anyone would hate because the lack of communication is awful.They aren’t allowed to have their phones out during work hours, and we are also busy with school or work.Dating a military man can be one of the most challenging kinds of relationships there is.While we love our men and all that they stand for, we have to deal with some things that other couples don't.